Hi everyone, did you miss me?
With the new baby things have been extremely hectic around here, as you can imagine. Carly has settled in really well but as she is still so little I am getting many a sleepless night. I nearly cried with happiness when she managed 6 hours straight last night! Fingers crossed for more of the same. Cameron has understandably been a bit jealous but he adores his baby sister and gives her lots of hugs and kisses. Carly is now 5 weeks old and she is already growing up too fast! I weighed her yesterday and she is now 10 pounds, so has gained two pounds in just over a month, not too bad!
Meanwhile, I have managed to lost two and a half stone of my pregnancy weight through healthy(ish) eating and breastfeeding alone which is great, although I am well aware I may put a bit back on over Christmas! I plan to take it easy over the next couple of weeks (I mean, seriously, who diets over Christmas?!) and then come back in the new year and get my pre baby body back!
I will be doing the healthy eating/treat exercise plan I did when I had Cameron as it worked really well. I want to ideally get down to 9 stone, which means probably around a stone to lose once I have gained 'holiday weight' next week. I am also starting back at my old exercise class which I am actually totally looking forward to as I missed the class over the last 10 months (expect to see lots of posts on my new year goals and weight loss journey in the new year).
Talking of wedding dresses, the wedding planning is coming on leaps and bounds. Having already secured our venue for the ceremony and the evening reception, as well as our photographer, we are now moving onto the more creative side of things and have been buying supplies to make our own save the date and wedding invitations in the New Year. I am also making our wedding favours and have already bought the material and ribbon for the bags. I will be putting up some posts in the next month on our DIY wedding including a step by step guide on how to make Save the Dates, Wedding Invites and Favour Bags.
Once I have toned up and lost that pesky last stone I am looking forward to going wedding dress shopping with my mum who has very kindly offered to buy me my dress! I keep seeing beautiful dresses in shop windows and having to restrain myself from going in! Once I allow myself to start looking, expect to see my dream dresses on the blog (must remember to make sure Tim doesn't look on here!).
Also coming up on the blog expect to see the return of regular posts such as 'Plans for the Month', 'Cuddles with Cameron' (now of course joined by Cuddles with Carly!) and 'What I did this Week'. I will also be hopefully doing some product reviews in the New Year of all things mum, toddler and baby. The blog will be taking on a couple of different angles as I want to write both about being a mummy and all that entails as well as wedding planning, which is very relevant for me at the moment and also links in with my degree of Events Management. I hope my readers enjoy the changes coming to the blog! Please feel free to send in any suggestions you may have for blog posts.
Hope you have an amazing Christmas and a very happy new year 2013 lots of love (Not so) Yummy Mummy (I'm working on it!)
Thursday, 20 December 2012
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Wednesday, 21 November 2012
Baby Carly Olivia Moore is Finally Here!
It's been just over a week since my last pregnancy update and I am so pleased to be able to finally say that baby Carly is now here!
I went into labour last Thursday 15th during a reflexology treatment. My contractions slowly got closer and closer together and I finally allowed my mum to persuade me to go into the maternity hospital at 10:30pm by which point my contractions were 3/4 minutes apart and I was 3cm dilated.
I had the gas and air after about half an hour and tried out the birth pool, although I had to get out quite quickly after the baby's heart rate slowed and I needed to be attached to a monitor for awhile. At around 3am I was examined and had my waters broken (I definitely still had high fluid levels as it went EVERYWHERE!) which really sped things up.
I was in a lot of pain and had a shot of pethidene to help me cope. I went from 4cm to 10cm dilated in around an hour and the midwife didn't believe me when I told her I was feeling pressure and needed to push. I had to stop using the gas and air as the pain was so intense and I needed to concentrate on getting my daughter our. After she eventually examined me it was time to push and within ten minutes I had my baby girl in my arms!
She was born at 4:34am weighing 7 pounds 15 and a half oz. It all went by in such a blur that I was pretty overwhelmed and couldn't quite believe I finally had my baby girl! Tim and my mum were amazing birth partners throughout and so encouraging. Tim cut his daughter's cord and got very emotional. I had a bath and got changed and we left the hospital at 9am, it was all very straightforward.
Since she has arrived I have been settling into being a mummy to two children. Cameron is loving being a big brother and keeps giving baby Carly lots of kisses and cuddles. I am so happy to have my little family complete and am looking forward to our first Christmas all together as well as finishing planning our wedding (just got to slim down before dress shopping!).
I went into labour last Thursday 15th during a reflexology treatment. My contractions slowly got closer and closer together and I finally allowed my mum to persuade me to go into the maternity hospital at 10:30pm by which point my contractions were 3/4 minutes apart and I was 3cm dilated.
I had the gas and air after about half an hour and tried out the birth pool, although I had to get out quite quickly after the baby's heart rate slowed and I needed to be attached to a monitor for awhile. At around 3am I was examined and had my waters broken (I definitely still had high fluid levels as it went EVERYWHERE!) which really sped things up.
| On gas and air |
I was in a lot of pain and had a shot of pethidene to help me cope. I went from 4cm to 10cm dilated in around an hour and the midwife didn't believe me when I told her I was feeling pressure and needed to push. I had to stop using the gas and air as the pain was so intense and I needed to concentrate on getting my daughter our. After she eventually examined me it was time to push and within ten minutes I had my baby girl in my arms!
She was born at 4:34am weighing 7 pounds 15 and a half oz. It all went by in such a blur that I was pretty overwhelmed and couldn't quite believe I finally had my baby girl! Tim and my mum were amazing birth partners throughout and so encouraging. Tim cut his daughter's cord and got very emotional. I had a bath and got changed and we left the hospital at 9am, it was all very straightforward.
| Our perfect little family <3 |
Since she has arrived I have been settling into being a mummy to two children. Cameron is loving being a big brother and keeps giving baby Carly lots of kisses and cuddles. I am so happy to have my little family complete and am looking forward to our first Christmas all together as well as finishing planning our wedding (just got to slim down before dress shopping!).
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Tuesday, 13 November 2012
Pregnancy Diary: 40 Weeks (Due Date!)
What's going on with me this week:
Babycentre says:
"After months of anticipation, your de date has been and gone, and... you're still pregnant. It's frustrating, but lots of women find themselves in this situation.
In TV dramas, labour always begins with the waters breaking – in the middle of a crowded room, of course – just before contractions start. The reality is that, even if your membranes do rupture, your baby's head will tend to act like a cork at the opening of your uterus (womb). If you lie down, however, you may notice fluid leaking. Your body will continue to produce amniotic fluid until your baby is born.
Try to stay calm if your waters break or you start to feel contractions, but do call your doctor or midwife straight away. You may be advised to wait at home until contractions are really under way".
What I feel this week:
I am pretty impatient to be honest. My migraines are still really bad and codeine doesn't even work anymore which makes looking after Cameron near impossible. I didn't want to go into labour at the weekend as it was my mum's 50th birthday party, but now I regret wishing for baby to stay inside as now she is way too comfy in there.... I have now had two sweeps and, although I have had some signs of early labour, I am yet to go into full labour.... My induction has now been booked for next Tuesday so at least I know I will have my baby by the end of next week at the latest... Generally I am trying to take my mind off everything and just spend some time with Cameron and Tim before the baby arrives, but it is hard when I am now so massive that it is difficult to even move around the house. I will be so much happier when the baby is finally here with us!
What is going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Rest assured your baby is quite cosy where she is. She is getting a little heavier and may grow a bit more in length. The average baby is about 51cm long from head to toe and weighs about 3.4kg at birth. But if your baby is anywhere between 2.5kg and 3.8kg, that's a healthy weight.
Your baby continues to shed the greasy, white substance (vernix caseosa) which has been protecting her skin. If she shows no sign of making an appearance after another week, she may have slightly dry skin when she arrives.
Your baby has mastered all the skills she'll need after she's born. She can instinctively search for her thumb and suck it, just as she will search for your breast for a feed soon after birth".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
Babycentre says:
"After months of anticipation, your de date has been and gone, and... you're still pregnant. It's frustrating, but lots of women find themselves in this situation.
In TV dramas, labour always begins with the waters breaking – in the middle of a crowded room, of course – just before contractions start. The reality is that, even if your membranes do rupture, your baby's head will tend to act like a cork at the opening of your uterus (womb). If you lie down, however, you may notice fluid leaking. Your body will continue to produce amniotic fluid until your baby is born.
Try to stay calm if your waters break or you start to feel contractions, but do call your doctor or midwife straight away. You may be advised to wait at home until contractions are really under way".
What I feel this week:
I am pretty impatient to be honest. My migraines are still really bad and codeine doesn't even work anymore which makes looking after Cameron near impossible. I didn't want to go into labour at the weekend as it was my mum's 50th birthday party, but now I regret wishing for baby to stay inside as now she is way too comfy in there.... I have now had two sweeps and, although I have had some signs of early labour, I am yet to go into full labour.... My induction has now been booked for next Tuesday so at least I know I will have my baby by the end of next week at the latest... Generally I am trying to take my mind off everything and just spend some time with Cameron and Tim before the baby arrives, but it is hard when I am now so massive that it is difficult to even move around the house. I will be so much happier when the baby is finally here with us!
What is going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Rest assured your baby is quite cosy where she is. She is getting a little heavier and may grow a bit more in length. The average baby is about 51cm long from head to toe and weighs about 3.4kg at birth. But if your baby is anywhere between 2.5kg and 3.8kg, that's a healthy weight.
Your baby continues to shed the greasy, white substance (vernix caseosa) which has been protecting her skin. If she shows no sign of making an appearance after another week, she may have slightly dry skin when she arrives.
Your baby has mastered all the skills she'll need after she's born. She can instinctively search for her thumb and suck it, just as she will search for your breast for a feed soon after birth".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
| huuuuuuuge |
Monday, 5 November 2012
Pregnancy Update: 39 Weeks!
What's going on with me this week:
Babycentre says:
"It's all about watching and waiting now, as your baby could arrive any day. Your baby could be up to 50cm long, and weigh about 3kg. But that's only an average figure. As soon as your baby is born, your midwife will weigh him, and it's only then you'll know for sure how much he weighs
And if the week passes and there's still no baby? Try not to worry – babies have a habit of not arriving on their scheduled due date. Most doctors wait another two weeks before considering a pregnancy overdue".
What I feel this week:
I am definitely starting to get impatient now. There is also now the worry that the baby will come when it is not a good time as I have events coming up at the end of this week! I am due a week today but due to having constant migraines, the hospital eventually have agreed to allow me to have a sweep done on Wednesday, which if favourable, might help me to go into labour. If that one doesn't work I will hopefully have another one the week after and if that doesn't work either I have been told I will be allowed an induction a few days early when I would be 41+2. I have been given an estimated weight of 7'5 which scares me a bit as Cameron was only 6'9 at birth and the baby is still in there growing, but I just have to remind myself that the baby is healthy and happy and that is really all that matters. I am getting so fed up of people telling me that the baby will come when she is ready as I know this, I am just very uncomfortable now and not getting any sleep anyway so might as well have her here to keep me up at night!
What's going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Your baby is shedding the greasy, white substance (vernix caseosa) which has been protecting his skin. This turns the amniotic fluid, which was once clear, pale and milky. The outer layers of your baby's skin are also sloughing off as new skin forms underneath".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
Babycentre says:
"It's all about watching and waiting now, as your baby could arrive any day. Your baby could be up to 50cm long, and weigh about 3kg. But that's only an average figure. As soon as your baby is born, your midwife will weigh him, and it's only then you'll know for sure how much he weighs
And if the week passes and there's still no baby? Try not to worry – babies have a habit of not arriving on their scheduled due date. Most doctors wait another two weeks before considering a pregnancy overdue".
What I feel this week:
I am definitely starting to get impatient now. There is also now the worry that the baby will come when it is not a good time as I have events coming up at the end of this week! I am due a week today but due to having constant migraines, the hospital eventually have agreed to allow me to have a sweep done on Wednesday, which if favourable, might help me to go into labour. If that one doesn't work I will hopefully have another one the week after and if that doesn't work either I have been told I will be allowed an induction a few days early when I would be 41+2. I have been given an estimated weight of 7'5 which scares me a bit as Cameron was only 6'9 at birth and the baby is still in there growing, but I just have to remind myself that the baby is healthy and happy and that is really all that matters. I am getting so fed up of people telling me that the baby will come when she is ready as I know this, I am just very uncomfortable now and not getting any sleep anyway so might as well have her here to keep me up at night!
What's going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Your baby is shedding the greasy, white substance (vernix caseosa) which has been protecting his skin. This turns the amniotic fluid, which was once clear, pale and milky. The outer layers of your baby's skin are also sloughing off as new skin forms underneath".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
Monday, 29 October 2012
Planning my Wedding: It's all Booked!
I can now officially say that I will be married on Friday 14th February 2014 at 11:30am- eek! It is all so exciting!
We met with the vicar last Tuesday and it went really well, I had nothing to be nervous about as the Vicar is so laid back and instantly put pregnant hormonal me at ease. We have booked the wedding itself for the morning and then the evening venue isn't until 7pm so we will have lots of time to relax inbetween and spend some time with our families before the evening celebrations begin.
As well as booking the church, we were able to attend another wedding fayre (I'm sure Tim hates me for dragging him around so many) and from this I have been inundated with emails from potential local wedding photographers.
One caught my eye as her name is what my married name will be, coincidence or what? We have pretty much definitely decided on booking her to take our morning ceremony photos and then will probably hire a photobooth for the evening reception, if the budget will allow it! I am due to meet with her to arrange everything, have a look at the venue and put down a deposit on Friday as long as I haven't gone into labour by then!
After that I can calm down for awhile and focus on having the baby, Christmas etc. I did see a gorgeous dress in a bridal shop window over the weekend, but had to resist going to look at it as I want to be back to my pre baby size 8 before I go dress shopping!
Other little bits keep catching my eye and I will admit that I have already bought the supplies to make my wedding favours for the female evening guests and have seen a beautiful wish tree that I want to buy soon! I think everything will fall into place easily over the next year, I just have to remind myself to slow down and enjoy the planning process as all too soon it will be over!
We met with the vicar last Tuesday and it went really well, I had nothing to be nervous about as the Vicar is so laid back and instantly put pregnant hormonal me at ease. We have booked the wedding itself for the morning and then the evening venue isn't until 7pm so we will have lots of time to relax inbetween and spend some time with our families before the evening celebrations begin.
As well as booking the church, we were able to attend another wedding fayre (I'm sure Tim hates me for dragging him around so many) and from this I have been inundated with emails from potential local wedding photographers.
One caught my eye as her name is what my married name will be, coincidence or what? We have pretty much definitely decided on booking her to take our morning ceremony photos and then will probably hire a photobooth for the evening reception, if the budget will allow it! I am due to meet with her to arrange everything, have a look at the venue and put down a deposit on Friday as long as I haven't gone into labour by then!
After that I can calm down for awhile and focus on having the baby, Christmas etc. I did see a gorgeous dress in a bridal shop window over the weekend, but had to resist going to look at it as I want to be back to my pre baby size 8 before I go dress shopping!
Other little bits keep catching my eye and I will admit that I have already bought the supplies to make my wedding favours for the female evening guests and have seen a beautiful wish tree that I want to buy soon! I think everything will fall into place easily over the next year, I just have to remind myself to slow down and enjoy the planning process as all too soon it will be over!
Pregnancy Update: 38 Weeks!
What's going on with me this week:
Babycentre says:
"If you don't know already, can you tell if you're carrying a boy or a girl? One hint may come from the size of your baby – boys tend to be slightly heavier than girls. Babies at week 39 weigh between 3kg and 3.2kg and continue to build the fat stores that will help regulate body temperature after birth".
What's I feel this week:
I'm not going to lie to you, I'm feeling pretty fed up this week.... I have been having severe mirgraines now for the past three weeks and have been in and out of hospital having blood tests. Luckily this week is half term which means my mum is at home and able to help with Cameron and give me a bit of a rest sometimes but I am dreading the next week or so after that as I will be alone with Cameron in the week and my migraines make it impossible to do anything. I am really hoping the consultant will be willing to at least try giving me a sweep prior to my due date if nothing happens on its own, but apparently they usually don't even worry until 41 weeks with your second.
I am massive now and finding it hard to walk around. I have been getting irregular tightenings every so often which are reasonably painful but go away after a little while so not progressing enough for labour just yet. I have also been having a lot of lower back pain and generally I am uncomfy in any position whether it be in bed on either side or sat on the settee. I have spent most of my time lately on my birth ball, not just hoping to get something started but as it is the only place I feel a bit comfortable.
I will be very relieved when this baby arrives, although I must admit I am also getting a bit nervous remembering the pain from the first time- eek! Apparently the full moon tonight is meant to bring on labour so cross your fingers for me....
What's going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Your baby's organ systems are fully developed and in place, but his lungs will be last to reach maturity. Even after your baby is born, it may take a few hours before he establishes a normal breathing pattern. After he's born, he'll have a series of brief tests which will measure his health on what's called the Apgar scale.
Wondering what colour your baby's eyes will be? Most white European babies are born with dark blue eyes and their true eye colour – be it brown, green, grey or blue – may not reveal itself for weeks or months. The colour of your baby's eyes in the first minutes after birth won't last – exposure to light changes a baby's initial eye colour. Most babies of African and Asian descent have dark grey or brown eyes at birth, but it won't be clear what precise shade their eyes will be until after the first six months or year".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
Babycentre says:
"If you don't know already, can you tell if you're carrying a boy or a girl? One hint may come from the size of your baby – boys tend to be slightly heavier than girls. Babies at week 39 weigh between 3kg and 3.2kg and continue to build the fat stores that will help regulate body temperature after birth".
What's I feel this week:
I'm not going to lie to you, I'm feeling pretty fed up this week.... I have been having severe mirgraines now for the past three weeks and have been in and out of hospital having blood tests. Luckily this week is half term which means my mum is at home and able to help with Cameron and give me a bit of a rest sometimes but I am dreading the next week or so after that as I will be alone with Cameron in the week and my migraines make it impossible to do anything. I am really hoping the consultant will be willing to at least try giving me a sweep prior to my due date if nothing happens on its own, but apparently they usually don't even worry until 41 weeks with your second.
I am massive now and finding it hard to walk around. I have been getting irregular tightenings every so often which are reasonably painful but go away after a little while so not progressing enough for labour just yet. I have also been having a lot of lower back pain and generally I am uncomfy in any position whether it be in bed on either side or sat on the settee. I have spent most of my time lately on my birth ball, not just hoping to get something started but as it is the only place I feel a bit comfortable.
I will be very relieved when this baby arrives, although I must admit I am also getting a bit nervous remembering the pain from the first time- eek! Apparently the full moon tonight is meant to bring on labour so cross your fingers for me....
What's going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Your baby's organ systems are fully developed and in place, but his lungs will be last to reach maturity. Even after your baby is born, it may take a few hours before he establishes a normal breathing pattern. After he's born, he'll have a series of brief tests which will measure his health on what's called the Apgar scale.
Wondering what colour your baby's eyes will be? Most white European babies are born with dark blue eyes and their true eye colour – be it brown, green, grey or blue – may not reveal itself for weeks or months. The colour of your baby's eyes in the first minutes after birth won't last – exposure to light changes a baby's initial eye colour. Most babies of African and Asian descent have dark grey or brown eyes at birth, but it won't be clear what precise shade their eyes will be until after the first six months or year".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
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| Ready to pop! |
Monday, 22 October 2012
30 Years of The Snowman
I am a certified Christmas fanatic and have been known to get into the spirit months before Decemeber rolls around so it will be of no surprise to my readers that I have already started watching Christmas films and listening to festive tracks. Luckily for me I have the perfect excuse as the much loved family Christmas film The Snowman is being re-released this year to celebrate its 30th anniversary!
I was lucky enough to be sent a copy of the DVD to watch with Cameron prior to its release on 5th November. Cameron is actually pretty fussy with what he watches at the moment and won't just sit down for any old cartoon so I was interested whether he would enjoy this festive film as much as I did when I was younger (and, let's face it, now).
Cameron watched the entire film from start to finish without moving, a record for him and once it finished he asked me to put it on again, and again. After five times of watching it I must admit I was getting a little bored, but Cameron was still loving it and now recognises the lead character, the snowman when he sees my copy of the press release hanging around. He calls the snowman 'man' or 'bear' rather than snowman, but I think he gets the concept and really enjoys watching the snowman and little boy enjoying their magical evening and trip across the skies.
On a more adult note, I was really interested in the additional bonus features of the DVD, especially the feature where you can see how the film was put together. I think my brother would be even more interested as he is currently studying animation at University in Newcastle.
For anyone who hasn't seen this classic Christmas tale before I would definitely recommend watching it. Like a lot of families, we like nothing more than getting together around Christmas time and bonding over Christmas TV and films and this special edition will definitely be a part of Christmas this year. If you would like to purchase the film, it is available from 5th November 2012, rated PG with a running time of 26 minutes and retails at £6.99 for the DVD and £9.99 for Blu-Ray. There are also 35 minutes of special features on the special edition disc.
Disclaimer: I was sent the press release and special edition DVD to review on my blog, however, I was not paid for this and it has not affected my opinion which is both honest and accurate.
I was lucky enough to be sent a copy of the DVD to watch with Cameron prior to its release on 5th November. Cameron is actually pretty fussy with what he watches at the moment and won't just sit down for any old cartoon so I was interested whether he would enjoy this festive film as much as I did when I was younger (and, let's face it, now).
Cameron watched the entire film from start to finish without moving, a record for him and once it finished he asked me to put it on again, and again. After five times of watching it I must admit I was getting a little bored, but Cameron was still loving it and now recognises the lead character, the snowman when he sees my copy of the press release hanging around. He calls the snowman 'man' or 'bear' rather than snowman, but I think he gets the concept and really enjoys watching the snowman and little boy enjoying their magical evening and trip across the skies.
On a more adult note, I was really interested in the additional bonus features of the DVD, especially the feature where you can see how the film was put together. I think my brother would be even more interested as he is currently studying animation at University in Newcastle.
For anyone who hasn't seen this classic Christmas tale before I would definitely recommend watching it. Like a lot of families, we like nothing more than getting together around Christmas time and bonding over Christmas TV and films and this special edition will definitely be a part of Christmas this year. If you would like to purchase the film, it is available from 5th November 2012, rated PG with a running time of 26 minutes and retails at £6.99 for the DVD and £9.99 for Blu-Ray. There are also 35 minutes of special features on the special edition disc.
Disclaimer: I was sent the press release and special edition DVD to review on my blog, however, I was not paid for this and it has not affected my opinion which is both honest and accurate.
A Pregnancy in Pictures
I knew early on that I wanted to document this pregnancy well so started a diary which I managed to keep up into the second trimester when I started writing the pregnancy updates on my blog instead. I did want to take a photo a day of my bump but never remember to do it so instead have taken a photo each Monday since I was in my second trimester, in the same spot to show the difference in bump shape and size as well as possible. With only a few weeks left I cannot wait to take a photo in the same spot with my newborn baby! This is my pregnancy journey so far....
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| 21 weeks to 31 weeks pregnant |
Pregnancy Update: 37 Weeks!
What's going on with me this week:
Babycentre says:
"Around now many women start worrying about whether they will know if they are in labour".
So, not much!
What I feel this week:
To be honest, I am a little worried I won't know whether I am properly in labour or not as I didn't go into labour naturally with Cameron. I have had a couple of false alarms over the last few weeks which have had me wondering but the contractions always went away after half an hour. I am more impatient now than anything else. I am now classed as full term which means that the baby could come at any time. I also know that the due date is just an estimate and that the baby could be up to two weeks late.... I have started doing some of the old wives tales to help baby along including drinking vile tasting raspberry leaf tea, bouncing on my birth ball, going for walks and eating spicy foods. This lunchtime I have a vindaloo curry to eat- argh! I don't think any of these actually do work, but at least I will feel like I am doing something to pass the time at least. My mum wants the baby to come during her half term so that she can be around to help, I would be happy with that as it is next week when I will be 38 weeks and no doubt even more impatient!
What's going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Your baby weighs close to 2.8kg and may be about 48.6cm long from head to toe. Your baby's head is now cradled in your pelvic cavity – surrounded and protected by your pelvic bones. This position clears some much-needed space for her growing legs and buttocks.
Many babies now have a full head of hair, with locks up to 3.5cm long. And then, of course, some babies don't have any hair at all. Speaking of hair, most of the downy coat of lanugo that covered your baby from 26 weeks has disappeared, and so has most of the vernix caseosa, the protective whitish substance that also covered her. Your baby will swallow her lanugo and exterior coating, along with other secretions, and store them in her bowels. These will become her first poo, a blackish waste called meconium".
What my baby looks like inside this week:
What my bump looks like this week:
Babycentre says:
"Around now many women start worrying about whether they will know if they are in labour".
So, not much!
What I feel this week:
To be honest, I am a little worried I won't know whether I am properly in labour or not as I didn't go into labour naturally with Cameron. I have had a couple of false alarms over the last few weeks which have had me wondering but the contractions always went away after half an hour. I am more impatient now than anything else. I am now classed as full term which means that the baby could come at any time. I also know that the due date is just an estimate and that the baby could be up to two weeks late.... I have started doing some of the old wives tales to help baby along including drinking vile tasting raspberry leaf tea, bouncing on my birth ball, going for walks and eating spicy foods. This lunchtime I have a vindaloo curry to eat- argh! I don't think any of these actually do work, but at least I will feel like I am doing something to pass the time at least. My mum wants the baby to come during her half term so that she can be around to help, I would be happy with that as it is next week when I will be 38 weeks and no doubt even more impatient!
What's going on with my baby this week:
Babycentre says:
"Your baby weighs close to 2.8kg and may be about 48.6cm long from head to toe. Your baby's head is now cradled in your pelvic cavity – surrounded and protected by your pelvic bones. This position clears some much-needed space for her growing legs and buttocks.
Many babies now have a full head of hair, with locks up to 3.5cm long. And then, of course, some babies don't have any hair at all. Speaking of hair, most of the downy coat of lanugo that covered your baby from 26 weeks has disappeared, and so has most of the vernix caseosa, the protective whitish substance that also covered her. Your baby will swallow her lanugo and exterior coating, along with other secretions, and store them in her bowels. These will become her first poo, a blackish waste called meconium".
What my baby looks like inside this week:

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| Full term baby bump! |
Monday, 15 October 2012
So you want to Induce?
As a disclaimer before I even start this post, no I am not a medical professional and no you should not do any of these 'old wives tales' without first speaking to your midwife and/or doctor. When I was pregnant with Cameron I was very impatient and as soon as I hit 37 weeks (classed as full term) I was on the lookout for ways to start of labour. I tried tirelessly for three weeks, reached my due date and cried for a further week when labour still didn't start... I eventually had to be induced after my waters broke but labour STILL didn't start on its own!
I had Cameron eight days after I was due, on 13th September 2010 having been hooked up to an IV drip to strengthen my contractions, and having had a reasonably quick established labour of six and a half hours, with forty three minutes spent pushing him out. Now, from this, I can tell you that old wives tales do not (necessarily) work. When you hear people say that things have worked for them, they could in fact be down to coincidence. Despite this, next week once I reach full term this time round I know that the impatient side of me will inevitably come back out and I will be reaching for that extra spicy curry before you can say myth.
A quick search online will give you a handful of ways you can try to start your own labour, some I have been assured are safe by a midwife, others that are definitely not to be tried at home (the most scary ones include at home sweeps and drinking vast amounts of castor oil, both of which can cause the baby to become distressed and can be dangerous for both mum and baby).
I was intrigued to find out what women I know tried out when they were becoming impatient for baby to arrive so had a quick ask around on Facebook. From this I have come up with my own top ten old wives ways of inducing labour at home. Again I reiterate that these should only be tried once a medical professional has given you the ok and should never be attempted before you reach full term (37 weeks pregnant).
1. Spicy Foods
My Experience:
Probably one of the most well known ways to help start labour, the curry or other spicy food was one I went straight to when pregnant with Cameron. I was eating a ready meal Chicken Tikka Masala daily for a couple of weeks until I realised it was no longer hot enough for me so I moved onto the extra spicy Tikka Masala which still didn't do anything. After switching to a Jalfrezi, which still had no effect, I pretty much gave up on curries (though to this day I now love Jalfrezi so that's something anyway).
Theory behind it:
Apparently there is a link between the gut and the uterus meaning that when one is stimulated, the other will automatically be affected as well. By eating spicy foods, the gut is kicked into action thus (hopefully) also kick starting labour.
Real experience:
"(I) had a curry the evening I went into labour (my due date)"- Felicity, mum to Eric.
2. Fresh Pineapple
My Experience:
Another popular food to eat that is meant to help 'bring it on'. I started eating pineapple around the same time as the curries in my first pregnancy, in fact I can distinctly remember many a shopping trip heavily pregnant with curries and pineapples in my shopping basket. I used to buy the ready prepared packs of pineapple as the whole ones were too fiddly but this got expensive... You have to eat quite a large amount of pineapple at once for it to have any real effect, and my bank balance ran out way before I reached this amount. On top of this, my tongue ended up bleeding from eating too much pineapple, ouch!
Theory behind it:
In the same way that the spicy foods are meant to help start of labour, eating lots of fresh pineapple can also apparently stimulate the gut and then the uterus. In addition to this, fresh (not tinned) pineapple contains an enzyme called bromelain that is supposed to work like a prostaglandin (which ripens and softens the cervix). You need to eat a vast amount of fresh pineapple for it to work though.
Real Experience:
"Two whole fresh pineapples worked for me but god did my mouth blister"- Alex.
3. Sex
My Experience:
I was single when I had Cameron so this wasn't really much of an option. I was pretty gutted as I had heard that sex was the most likely to work. I will have to keep you posted this time round!
Theory behind it:
This is the one that is most recommended by doctors and midwives when asked how to induce labour. Sperm contains prostaglandins, which can ripen the cervix. On top of this, if you orgasm during sex or whilst having foreplay, your body releases the hormone oxytocin which can cause contractions.
Real Experience:
"On the Friday before Eloise arrived I cleaned the garden and did the deed. 5 hours after the deed, my waters went"- Emily, mum to Eloise.
4. Raspberry leaf capsules/Tea
My Experience:
I started raspberry leaf capsules at 36 weeks when pregnant with Cameron. I remember the woman behind the till asking me how far gone I was when I bought them to check I wasn't taking them too early on (I had a smaller bump that time obviously!). I took two a day, increasing to three a day nearer my due date. I also started drinking the tea when I reached 38 weeks but only actually managed half a mug once and a few sips another time as it tasted so disgusting (I am not a tea drinker usually anyway and I was gagging, not nice!). I do think the capsules helped me to have a shorter labour once my contractions had been stabilised with the IV drip. I was in established labour for six and a half hours which isn't too bad for a first time mum. Raspberry leaf capsules/tea are not meant to help induce labour but can do, which is why they shouldn't be taken until 35 weeks at the very earliest (despite what you might read online). They do help to soften the cervix and tone the uterus, which in turn is meant to mean a quicker and easier labour. Definitely worth a try in my eyes, and I will be getting the capsules next time I am near a health food shop.
Theory behind it:
Raspberry leaf doesn't actually induce labour (although there is a risk it could so it shouldn't be taken until term). It is meant to tone the uterus and make contractions more efficient. It is meant to help make the established stage of labour shorter and easier.
Real Experience:
"I drank 1 cup of raspberry leaf tea a day from 36 weeks....I have no idea if... that helped or if he would have been born (anyway)"- Felicity mum to Eric.
5. Walking
My Experience:
I started going for long walks along the beach with my mum once I hit full term with Cameron. I also up and down a hill local to me. None of this seemed to work for me and I am pretty concerned about my walking plans this time round. I have had pelvic girdle pain since around 22 weeks in this pregnancy and it makes walking incredibly painful. I often have to stop and rest after only a very short distance, so I don't really see myself being able to walk long distances in order to get this baby moving down the birth canal....
Theory behind it:
Walking can encourage contractions to get stronger once they ahve already started, and can also help the baby move down into the birth canal, pushing onto the cervix and encouraging it to dilate.
Real Experience:
"The midwife said my laps of the hospital and bouncing on the ball helped to dilate my cervix itself and staying upright encouraged her head further down"- Natalie, mum to Harriet.
6. Nipple Stimulation
My Experiences:
I think I attempted this with a breast pump as a last ditch attempt around 39 weeks last time. It seemed freaky to me and I definitely didn't do it for long enough to have any success. Looking it up online, I might be tempted to try again this time round but it does seem to take a lot of time, effort and practise to get a good technique going.
Theory behind it:
Just as foreplay can help bring on orgasms which release the hormone, ocytocin, tweaking your nipples releases the same hormone and can therefore help soften the cervix and start off labour.
Real Experience:
"Me and my husband did that when i was 37 weeks pregnant and i had my baby that night"-Jenny
7. Bouncing on a Birth Ball
My Experience:
I did try this, but I didn't do it enough to work. Apparently any form of bouncing will do and there are some people suggesting bumping down the stairs or going for a drive along a bumpy country lane will help but these things seem a bit more dangerous to me. I will definitely be inflating my exercise ball in the next couple of weeks and plan to do some bouncing reguarly, perhaps whilst watching daytime TV or in the evening when me and my mum watch Hollyoaks (guilty trash tv at its best).
Theory behind it:
By bouncing and rocking backwards and forwards and side to side on a birth ball, the baby is supposedly encouraged to drop down towards the cervix. The movements can also help to open the pelvis, which prepares it for labour and delivery.
Real Experience:
"I think the gym ball helped the most as I felt like he was moving down further. I used it a few times a day for an hour at a time. Riley was born 8 days early". -Kathryn, mum to Riley
8. Massage/Reflexology
My Experience:
I never tried anything like this first time round. I had a massage earlier on in pregnancy this time round which worried me as she actually did press on the pressure points which can trigger labour. Maybe having a massage would be a good idea later on once I have reached full term and labour would be welcome? I might have a look into it....
Theory behind it:
Reflexology, massage and acupuncture have all had positive results from women for getting labour started. It is thought that pressure points stimulated during these sessions are linked to the uterus, making contractions start. All of these can also help relax a heavily pregnant woman, something that won't help kickstart labour but will be of help during.
Real Experience:
"I had reflexology at 38 weeks 4 days later went in to labour it was my auntie as she did the same to my mum with me"- Hannah, mum to Erin and Annie.
9. Housework
My Experiences:
I must admit that I am not one for doing a whole lot of housework. When pregnant first time round I was in the process of moving into a flat with a Uni friend but staying with my mum during the last few weeks and I let her do pretty much everything. It was a shock for both of us when I suddenly got my nesting instinct and started manically cleaning the kitchen at 38 weeks. As you know, I still went overdue so nesting means nothing is imminent, however, it was doing housework that I believe finally helped get me somewhere as I was on my hands and knees picking up laundry off the floor to be washed when my waters broke! This time round I have definitely been getting the urge to have everything nice and tidy and ready for when baby gets here and have done a major clearout of my room in the last week, including finally sorting out getting a new bed as mine has broken a couple of times and often makes an ominous creaking sound when I get in it (I try not to let it give me a complex about my weight!). I will be doing as much housework as I can as I reach full term, which I'm sure my mum will be thrilled about as I am back living with her... Scrubbing kitchen and bathroom floors sounds like something that could help get things going....
Theory behind it:
The same way walking is meant to be able to help induce labour, doing housework can help by making the baby drop down and onto the cervix, causing contractions to start or intensify.
Real Experience:
"A whole lot of house work....worked a treat"- Becca.
10. Clary Sage Oil
My Experience:
I must admit I had never even heard of this essential oil when pregnant with Cameron, nor was it something I was advised to use when asking around for induction ideas last time. This time I have done some research, as well as having a couple of ladies I know tell me how they used it, and I might give it a go. What worries me a little is warnings I have found online about it giving strong headaches, making people sleepy or euphoric, and that it can work too fast causing intense contractions instantly. I think if I do use this oil, it will be with caution, only in the evening or at a weekend when my mum or Tim is around to ensure Cameron is looked after and I am not alone if labour were to start suddenly!
Theory behind it:
Clary sage is meant to be able to stimulate labour, and if used in a nice warm bath, it can also help relaxation.
Real Experience:
"I... used clary sage oil massaged with some oil into bump once at term it's supposed to bring on contractions so use wisely!"- Christine, mum to six
I had Cameron eight days after I was due, on 13th September 2010 having been hooked up to an IV drip to strengthen my contractions, and having had a reasonably quick established labour of six and a half hours, with forty three minutes spent pushing him out. Now, from this, I can tell you that old wives tales do not (necessarily) work. When you hear people say that things have worked for them, they could in fact be down to coincidence. Despite this, next week once I reach full term this time round I know that the impatient side of me will inevitably come back out and I will be reaching for that extra spicy curry before you can say myth.
A quick search online will give you a handful of ways you can try to start your own labour, some I have been assured are safe by a midwife, others that are definitely not to be tried at home (the most scary ones include at home sweeps and drinking vast amounts of castor oil, both of which can cause the baby to become distressed and can be dangerous for both mum and baby).
I was intrigued to find out what women I know tried out when they were becoming impatient for baby to arrive so had a quick ask around on Facebook. From this I have come up with my own top ten old wives ways of inducing labour at home. Again I reiterate that these should only be tried once a medical professional has given you the ok and should never be attempted before you reach full term (37 weeks pregnant).
1. Spicy Foods
My Experience:
Probably one of the most well known ways to help start labour, the curry or other spicy food was one I went straight to when pregnant with Cameron. I was eating a ready meal Chicken Tikka Masala daily for a couple of weeks until I realised it was no longer hot enough for me so I moved onto the extra spicy Tikka Masala which still didn't do anything. After switching to a Jalfrezi, which still had no effect, I pretty much gave up on curries (though to this day I now love Jalfrezi so that's something anyway).
Theory behind it:
Apparently there is a link between the gut and the uterus meaning that when one is stimulated, the other will automatically be affected as well. By eating spicy foods, the gut is kicked into action thus (hopefully) also kick starting labour.
Real experience:
"(I) had a curry the evening I went into labour (my due date)"- Felicity, mum to Eric.
2. Fresh Pineapple
My Experience:
Another popular food to eat that is meant to help 'bring it on'. I started eating pineapple around the same time as the curries in my first pregnancy, in fact I can distinctly remember many a shopping trip heavily pregnant with curries and pineapples in my shopping basket. I used to buy the ready prepared packs of pineapple as the whole ones were too fiddly but this got expensive... You have to eat quite a large amount of pineapple at once for it to have any real effect, and my bank balance ran out way before I reached this amount. On top of this, my tongue ended up bleeding from eating too much pineapple, ouch!
Theory behind it:
In the same way that the spicy foods are meant to help start of labour, eating lots of fresh pineapple can also apparently stimulate the gut and then the uterus. In addition to this, fresh (not tinned) pineapple contains an enzyme called bromelain that is supposed to work like a prostaglandin (which ripens and softens the cervix). You need to eat a vast amount of fresh pineapple for it to work though.
Real Experience:
"Two whole fresh pineapples worked for me but god did my mouth blister"- Alex.
3. Sex
My Experience:
I was single when I had Cameron so this wasn't really much of an option. I was pretty gutted as I had heard that sex was the most likely to work. I will have to keep you posted this time round!
Theory behind it:
This is the one that is most recommended by doctors and midwives when asked how to induce labour. Sperm contains prostaglandins, which can ripen the cervix. On top of this, if you orgasm during sex or whilst having foreplay, your body releases the hormone oxytocin which can cause contractions.
Real Experience:
"On the Friday before Eloise arrived I cleaned the garden and did the deed. 5 hours after the deed, my waters went"- Emily, mum to Eloise.
4. Raspberry leaf capsules/Tea
My Experience:
I started raspberry leaf capsules at 36 weeks when pregnant with Cameron. I remember the woman behind the till asking me how far gone I was when I bought them to check I wasn't taking them too early on (I had a smaller bump that time obviously!). I took two a day, increasing to three a day nearer my due date. I also started drinking the tea when I reached 38 weeks but only actually managed half a mug once and a few sips another time as it tasted so disgusting (I am not a tea drinker usually anyway and I was gagging, not nice!). I do think the capsules helped me to have a shorter labour once my contractions had been stabilised with the IV drip. I was in established labour for six and a half hours which isn't too bad for a first time mum. Raspberry leaf capsules/tea are not meant to help induce labour but can do, which is why they shouldn't be taken until 35 weeks at the very earliest (despite what you might read online). They do help to soften the cervix and tone the uterus, which in turn is meant to mean a quicker and easier labour. Definitely worth a try in my eyes, and I will be getting the capsules next time I am near a health food shop.
Theory behind it:
Raspberry leaf doesn't actually induce labour (although there is a risk it could so it shouldn't be taken until term). It is meant to tone the uterus and make contractions more efficient. It is meant to help make the established stage of labour shorter and easier.
Real Experience:
"I drank 1 cup of raspberry leaf tea a day from 36 weeks....I have no idea if... that helped or if he would have been born (anyway)"- Felicity mum to Eric.
5. Walking
My Experience:
I started going for long walks along the beach with my mum once I hit full term with Cameron. I also up and down a hill local to me. None of this seemed to work for me and I am pretty concerned about my walking plans this time round. I have had pelvic girdle pain since around 22 weeks in this pregnancy and it makes walking incredibly painful. I often have to stop and rest after only a very short distance, so I don't really see myself being able to walk long distances in order to get this baby moving down the birth canal....
Theory behind it:
Walking can encourage contractions to get stronger once they ahve already started, and can also help the baby move down into the birth canal, pushing onto the cervix and encouraging it to dilate.
Real Experience:
"The midwife said my laps of the hospital and bouncing on the ball helped to dilate my cervix itself and staying upright encouraged her head further down"- Natalie, mum to Harriet.
6. Nipple Stimulation
My Experiences:
I think I attempted this with a breast pump as a last ditch attempt around 39 weeks last time. It seemed freaky to me and I definitely didn't do it for long enough to have any success. Looking it up online, I might be tempted to try again this time round but it does seem to take a lot of time, effort and practise to get a good technique going.
Theory behind it:
Just as foreplay can help bring on orgasms which release the hormone, ocytocin, tweaking your nipples releases the same hormone and can therefore help soften the cervix and start off labour.
Real Experience:
"Me and my husband did that when i was 37 weeks pregnant and i had my baby that night"-Jenny
7. Bouncing on a Birth Ball
My Experience:
I did try this, but I didn't do it enough to work. Apparently any form of bouncing will do and there are some people suggesting bumping down the stairs or going for a drive along a bumpy country lane will help but these things seem a bit more dangerous to me. I will definitely be inflating my exercise ball in the next couple of weeks and plan to do some bouncing reguarly, perhaps whilst watching daytime TV or in the evening when me and my mum watch Hollyoaks (guilty trash tv at its best).
Theory behind it:
By bouncing and rocking backwards and forwards and side to side on a birth ball, the baby is supposedly encouraged to drop down towards the cervix. The movements can also help to open the pelvis, which prepares it for labour and delivery.
Real Experience:
"I think the gym ball helped the most as I felt like he was moving down further. I used it a few times a day for an hour at a time. Riley was born 8 days early". -Kathryn, mum to Riley
8. Massage/Reflexology
My Experience:
I never tried anything like this first time round. I had a massage earlier on in pregnancy this time round which worried me as she actually did press on the pressure points which can trigger labour. Maybe having a massage would be a good idea later on once I have reached full term and labour would be welcome? I might have a look into it....
Theory behind it:
Reflexology, massage and acupuncture have all had positive results from women for getting labour started. It is thought that pressure points stimulated during these sessions are linked to the uterus, making contractions start. All of these can also help relax a heavily pregnant woman, something that won't help kickstart labour but will be of help during.
Real Experience:
"I had reflexology at 38 weeks 4 days later went in to labour it was my auntie as she did the same to my mum with me"- Hannah, mum to Erin and Annie.
9. Housework
My Experiences:
I must admit that I am not one for doing a whole lot of housework. When pregnant first time round I was in the process of moving into a flat with a Uni friend but staying with my mum during the last few weeks and I let her do pretty much everything. It was a shock for both of us when I suddenly got my nesting instinct and started manically cleaning the kitchen at 38 weeks. As you know, I still went overdue so nesting means nothing is imminent, however, it was doing housework that I believe finally helped get me somewhere as I was on my hands and knees picking up laundry off the floor to be washed when my waters broke! This time round I have definitely been getting the urge to have everything nice and tidy and ready for when baby gets here and have done a major clearout of my room in the last week, including finally sorting out getting a new bed as mine has broken a couple of times and often makes an ominous creaking sound when I get in it (I try not to let it give me a complex about my weight!). I will be doing as much housework as I can as I reach full term, which I'm sure my mum will be thrilled about as I am back living with her... Scrubbing kitchen and bathroom floors sounds like something that could help get things going....
Theory behind it:
The same way walking is meant to be able to help induce labour, doing housework can help by making the baby drop down and onto the cervix, causing contractions to start or intensify.
Real Experience:
"A whole lot of house work....worked a treat"- Becca.
10. Clary Sage Oil
My Experience:
I must admit I had never even heard of this essential oil when pregnant with Cameron, nor was it something I was advised to use when asking around for induction ideas last time. This time I have done some research, as well as having a couple of ladies I know tell me how they used it, and I might give it a go. What worries me a little is warnings I have found online about it giving strong headaches, making people sleepy or euphoric, and that it can work too fast causing intense contractions instantly. I think if I do use this oil, it will be with caution, only in the evening or at a weekend when my mum or Tim is around to ensure Cameron is looked after and I am not alone if labour were to start suddenly!
Theory behind it:
Clary sage is meant to be able to stimulate labour, and if used in a nice warm bath, it can also help relaxation.
Real Experience:
"I... used clary sage oil massaged with some oil into bump once at term it's supposed to bring on contractions so use wisely!"- Christine, mum to six
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